Friday, June 5, 2009

He's My Dad




On June 5, 2005… my dad died.

I miss him every single day.

He’s my dad.

He loved me unconditionally and I knew it.

He’s my dad.

He taught me how to love my children.

He’s my dad.

My daughter was carrying his first great-grandchild, when he died. I know he loves his great-grandgirls. All four of them.

He's the strongest man, I have ever known.

He's the softest man, I have ever known.

He’s my dad.

I remember going to his office with him on Saturday afternoons, when I was a little girl.

I remember my 18th birthday; he took me to a Polka Hall, so that I could have my first ‘legal’ beer with him. We danced Polka all night! (Yeah right, just how every 18 year old in the 1970’s wants to spend their 18th birthday!)

I remember how much my dad loved to dance, despite the fact he was beat-deficient.

He’s my dad.

I remember sitting by his hospital bedside for hours on end, after his lung transplant. I remember playing 500-Rummy with him hours on end, because that is what we did.

He’s my dad.

There is not a single day that passes; which I do not see his face, hear his voice or miss him with all my heart.

I love my dad.

He’s my dad.


24 comments:

  1. Beautiful tribute, AM. I can tell you love him very much. I don't think I will ever have a tribute like that.

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  2. If I was more proficient at crying, I would have cried...what a wonderful memorial. Thank you so much for posting this.

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  3. coffeypot...thanks for your kind words.

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  4. I love this. What a wonderful way to remember him. And what a handsome Dad you had!!

    Hallie

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  5. That is one of the most heartfelt tributes that I have ever read Airman Mom. What a special love you still share with your Dad. God bless you gal and hugs and kisses from Georgia :)

    Steady On
    Reggie Girl

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  6. A beautiful post. I can feel the love in every word. I know he's so proud of all of you.

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  7. wonderful insight into your history.

    thanks for sharing that.

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  8. Great posting about you Dad,I miss my dad as well.He passed away august 14,1984.

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  9. hallie...thank you for your kind words!

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  10. rg...your kind words are deeply appreciated!

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  11. me...It was so good of you to stop by!

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  12. mighty mom... today is special. I am me, because of my dad...so he deserves a special post.

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  13. God blessed you with angel for a Dad! {{{hugs}}}

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  14. AM,

    This is an awesome tribute to your Dad. I'm glad you were blessed with a great one. Mine passed in 1981 and I miss him everyday, so know how you feel about yours.

    Blessings,
    Mary

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  15. Hugs to you!!! Beautiful post.

    Karen

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  16. donna...thanks for your words!

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  17. mary...we are blessed to have good memories, which belong to us forever!

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  18. karen...it is so good to have you back! I do hope all is well with you! Thanks for stopping by!

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  19. Sounds like a great Dad, I am sure he is watching over you and his great granddaughters every day.

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  20. jeanne...thank you for your kind words. I must agree with you that he is smiling over us each day.

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  21. BEAUTIFUL. I don't dare listen to the Luther Vandross music now-- it makes me teary without having read this lovely tribute (I lost my Dad in 77).

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  22. ibhh..I have no doubt your dad has been with you every day! Thanks for stopping by, come back to listen to Luther...he sings it perfectly!

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